Merriam-Webster has selected gaslighting, “the act of grossly misleading someone, especially for one’s own advantage”, as the Word of the Year (WOTY) 2022.
Gaslighting is a term imported into the English language from the 1944 American psychological thriller, titled Gaslight. A big screen adaptation of the 1938 British theatre play, Gas Light by Patrick Hamilton, and blockbuster that received no less than seven Academy Award nominations, and won two, for Best Actress (Ingrid Bergman), and Best Production Design.
Gaslight was the macabre story of a husband scheming to drive his wife crazy with lies and deceit, for the usual mix of envy, greed, lust and ambition. As a result, the meaning of the term gaslighting, in 1950:
[...] psychological manipulation intended to make a person question the validity of their own thoughts, perception of reality, or memories and typically leads to confusion, loss of confidence and self-esteem, uncertainty of one's emotional or mental stability, and a dependency on the perpetrator [Merriam-Webster]
"I am sorry you feel this way” approach, along with avoiding an argument in lieu of admitting fault, is good old fashioned gaslighting. [Psychology Today]
Patients, who have felt that their symptoms were inappropriately dismissed as minor or primarily psychological by doctors, are using the term “medical gaslighting” to describe their experiences and stories. [New York Times, March 28, 2022.]
My Committee’s investigation leaves no doubt that, in the words of one company official, Big Oil is gaslighting the public. [Rep. Carolyn R. Maloney, Chairwoman of the Committee on Oversight and Reform, Sept. 14, 2022.]
References
Staff (Nov. 28, 2022). Word of the Year 2022 – Gaslighting. Merriam-Webster
https://www.merriam-webster.com/words-at-play/word-of-the-year
Cabral, S. (Nov. 29, 2009). Gaslighting: Merriam-Webster picks its word of the year. BBC.com
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